Love comes in many forms and fashion, but the greatest love is love for yourself.
God said "I am". Therefore the spirit of God dwells within you to be all that you can be. These two words, "I am", is said to carry a lot of power.
If you said, I am never going to do this or have that, guess what you have spoken into your world lack.
However, if you say, I am going to achieve that goal and I am divinely created, you are on the road of well being and happiness. It may take time but keep believing and keep encouraging yourself with positive words and affirmations.
Look beyond what we see and call those things you want into existence. It is only in a matter of time before they come true.